I believe that if we had not come to see you we would still be stuck in a muddy quagmire looking desperately for a way out with no idea of which way to go. So thank you so much for the skills you have taught us (Name withheld, Brighton, UK )

 

A year ago my partner and I found ourselves in the middle of an extremely stressful and emotional family conflict. It pushed me into a place of real desperation and anxiety. After a few weeks of ‘surviving’ Gavin was recommended to us and things began to change. From the moment we started working with Gavin we both felt heard and understood. He gave us such amazing and wise insight into the conflict that we were too close to see and gradually over the weeks and months he helped us to build up a successful tool kit to manage the conflict and help me to feel more empowered.  Our situation still needs constant work but thanks to Gavin I now feel confident enough to manage it on my own. However, I know that I can call him anytime for help and guidance and he will respond swiftly.  Not only has working with Gavin seen us through an incredibly stressful time but the skills that we have learned from him have also allowed us to deal with general conflict in a more positive and confident way. (Name withheld, UK)

 

I sought the help of conflict Intelligence for a dispute with a close family member. I was at a point whereby I could see my relationship with them just ending. Gavin helped me by providing a different perspective on my situation and gave me step by step guidance to help manage the dispute and get things back on track. I would highly recommend Gavin and conflict Intelligence to anyone who is in a dispute with a family member but wants to try and find a way to resolve it as best they can. Thank you Gavin, honestly without your help I believe we would no longer be speaking so thanks again. (Name withheld, Surrey, UK)

 

I initially met Gavin from Conflict Intelligence, at an international conference where he was speaking on communication and disputes. He subsequently helped me better understand the best ways to manage a dispute within our industry. The knowledge and skills he taught me were highly informative and extremely helpful in producing a positive outcome. I have also utilised these skills for disputes in my private life. (Name withheld, A National Regulatory Body, EU)

 

Without your help I would not have been able to physically sit in the same room as my abusive ex. I cannot express how much of a difference Gavin’s help has made in that respect.  It has not only been your ability to try and steer from dispute that has made an impact but I actually feel you have helped to heal some of the damage that was done. Thank you Gavin, your calm understanding, insight and therapy have meant so much. I feel more empowered again, with strength, new skills and resilience to keep moving it forward in a positive way for my family. (Name withheld, Sussex UK)

 

I just wanted to say thank for your significant help in getting everyone to the point today where we could meet and to listen to each others experiences. I know that both of you have worked hard to overcome barriers in communication and I believe that it has proved extremely productive for all of us. Thank you for all your support. (Name withheld, representative of police force)

 

Conflict Intelligence helped me manage a dispute at work during a resignation. Would recommend. (Name withheld, Berkshire, UK)

 

Because of your and Gavin’s invaluable advice I have won my appeal. You have truly made things better and I am communicating with (….) in the way Gavin helped me with, so that I no longer feel persecuted but am able to be more transparent about my viewpoint and also not automatically make negative assumptions about his communications. (Name withheld, working in conjunction with clients legal team, London)

 

Gavin provided great advice for me regarding a conflict I was having with a colleague. He helped calm the situation down and help me view things differently, which lead to a very positive change in the situation and my life. (Name withheld, London, UK)

 

You really helped me manage a conflict that I was having with my manager at work. It was  bothering me so much and I was finding work extremely stressful due to the tense situation. Gavin helped/ coach me on how best to manage the dispute, meaning I was able to stay in my job without leaving. Really valuable advice. (Name withheld, London, UK )

 

Being involved in the conference sector I have listened to many presentations and can say that Gavin is certainly in the top 10% of speakers that I have come across. He engages with the audience and provides an interactive style on conflict resolution  that the audience always enjoy. I would highly recommend Gavin for speaking engagements and for hosting workshops on conflict resolution and interactive sessions at events. (Name withheld, Partner at Global BioAg Linkages)

 

Gavin is genuinely behind those he serves, providing a well planned, focused programme with the best outcome for each participant underpinning it. His energy is directed towards success, and Gavin openly shares his knowledge and experience with those he meets and works with. ( Name withheld, Health care professional)